Heartbreak is the most awful and frustrating feelings no one even wishes for his/ her enemy. Its effect is synonymous to loosing a loved one.
You wished you could just wake up and realize it was just a dream. You can’t help but wish they could tell you they were only joking by ending it.
About Rebound relationship
Immediately, after the end of a relationship, a lot of people have this urge to mingle again. Especially the one whose heart was broken or who still have a spot or feelings for their ex. Is just hard to come into terms that you can’t be with them again.
They are scared of being single again, probably because their life and everything that concerns them revolves around the relationship. And so they smile at every opposite sex that comes their way, gives out their digit to every stranger they meet anywhere.
Just because your relationship has ended, doesn’t mean your life ought to end as well. But rather it should be the beginning of a new phase in your life. Do not be in a haste to jump into a new relationship especially if you have not healed completely from your previous relationship.
What you should do after a break up
This is the period to re- evaluate your life, this is the period to improve in your career, skills and intellect. This is the period to improve in every other aspect of your life including relationships .this is the period to Learn from your mistakes to
Know where you didn’t get it right. no matter how bad the relationship was or the state of trauma it left you in, there is always a lesson to learn from that experience. To know how best to handle your next relationship in other To avoid such reoccurrence .
Things you should know about rebound relationship.
The truth is that most rebound relationship usually doesn’t end well and doesn’t last for long too. Because you will end up comparing your new lover with your ex. Toiling with their feelings and subjecting them to emotional trauma. And by so doing, you are inviting karma into your life.
Dangers of rebound Relationship
Rebound relationship also makes you vulnerable to more heartbreaks. Because as your looking for a shoulder to lean on, some people will try to take advantage of the situation. They will use and dump you leaving you in a more depressed state than you were before.
say no to Rebound.
Be single for a while, rediscover your self and give your self enough time to heal. Before starting another journey of love.