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Most relationship doesn’t last irrespective of how both couples began their love and emotional journey.<\/p>\n
No doubt, love is a beautiful feelings, and being love is awesome too. Fallen in love for the first time leaves with you with this unusual feelings.<\/p>\n
The butterflies in your tummy, the cold shivers down your spine, to mention but a few.<\/p>\n
Those early years of friendship when your heart beat rate increases as soon as your eyes both locks together. You can’t deny the chemistry going on already, that you wished your friendship would lead to something more serious and great.<\/p>\n
Fourtnately, your wish came to reality. You soon found yourself in a relationship with that very special person whom you’ve always \u00a0anticipated to be with.<\/p>\n
What more can you ask for? Everything was moving well in the begining and during the\u00a0Dating phase \u00a0<\/a>then, all of a sudden, things began to take different shape.<\/p>\n The euphoria that once existed began to depreciate. And before you could say jerk, you’ve both gone your different ways.<\/p>\n What happened? you begin to ask yourself rhetorically. you can’t believe is all over. few months ago, you were planning on the number of kids you both wished to have, you were planning on going on vacations together in other to visit some exotic places you’ve always admired.<\/p>\n Is hard to come into the terms that everything has crashed, sometimes without a prior notice.<\/p>\n It happened so quickly that you still find it hard accepting the fact that you both \u00a0are no longer a couple. such feelings can be daunting. I’ve also received several complaint by people who lamented that they have been in several relationships, yet none had \u00a0ever lasted.<\/p>\n It all comes to an end at a time they never expected. I know you are also wondering. could lack of love be attributed to the reason why most relationship doesn’t last this days? Is love becoming an illusion this days? Or is there anything you could have done to avert the break up. don’t worry, i will clear your curiosity in a giffy.<\/p>\n Why most relationship doesn’t last.<\/strong><\/p>\n Differences and issues lingers<\/strong><\/p>\n This is one of the basic reason why most relationship doesn’t last..RESOLVING ISSUES IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP<\/a>\u00a0is a great way of sustaining a relationship. No relationship is perfect. Out of every successful marriage, there are usually couples who underwent through a lot and yet came out stronger than they were before. But what do we see this days, every issues poses a threat to a relationship, irrespective of how committed \u00a0the relationship might have been.<\/p>\n The mistake to make is to think that every issue or misunderstanding should \u00a0automatically become the end of a relationship. Unfortunately most people have this mindset. \u00a0Any little misunderstanding, one or both begins to contemplate on breaking up with each other.<\/p>\n Misunderstandings are like test, and for your relationship to progress to the next level, you both need to pass this test because this test shows how competent you are to overcome other challenges you might face in your marriage. You can only pass this test by agreeing mutually to resolve any issue or challenge you might face together. most especially without involving a\u00a0Third party.<\/a><\/p>\n The me, myself and “i”<\/strong><\/p>\n Most relationship doesn’t last because one or both partners have this me, myself and i mentality. no effort is made to strengthen the relationship, no effort is made to make the other happy. \u00a0You didnt give me this, you didn’t get me that. The one at the receiving end usually don’t have any other \u00a0option than to end things in other to save his\/her sanity.<\/p>\n A guy once lamented on how he ended his two years old relationship. According to him, his girlfriend was insensitive. her incessant demand was begining to choke him. even when he is depressed or passing through difficulty, he wouldn’t mind demanding one favour or the other.<\/p>\n Another lady complained of having a man \u00a0who places more priority and value in his sexual libido than \u00a0her supposed loved one.according to her, \u00a0He wouldn’t mind sleeping with her against her wish, as long as her sexual urge is satisfied. \u00a0such mentality and attitude usually leads to break up as nobody wants to be in a relationship where his\/her own needs are neglected.<\/p>\n Examine yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n often times, we do things or portray some characters without knowing that it is a turn off to other people. we behave in a certain way, without knowing that our loved ones a’int comfortable with it. \u00a0You may not be doing it deliberately, but because you are ignorant of it, you won’t know that someone else finds it uncomfortable.<\/p>\n If you are wondering why most relationship you go into doesn’t last.<\/p>\n i think \u00a0is high \u00a0time \u00a0you examine yourself thoroughly and ask yourself certain questions like . where am i not getting it right? What am i not doing right? you may\/may not be the problem. but try and find out, before going into hasty conclusion and judgement \u00a0that All men and women are the same. Don’t assume that you have the most perfect character. Find out first so you can improve. assuming you are the problem.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/loveonet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/images-14.jpg?resize=275%2C183&ssl=1\" "\\"\\"")
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