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\"Anger
Dealing with Anger and resentment in a relationship<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Knowing how to deal with Anger and resentment in a relationship is one of the basic steps \u00a0in building \u00a0a\u00a0Healthy<\/a>\u00a0relationship.<\/p>\n

Anger is a weapon which is capable of destroying a lot in seconds or minute. \u00a0It is an emotional trait which has landed a lot of people in life time misery as a result of reacting so quickly without giving it a second thought.<\/p>\n

Most times, \u00a0people indulge in so many negative vices. A lot of people find themselves doing what they never thought they could do \u00a0as a result of anger.<\/p>\n

And before they realized what had happened, an \u00a0irreversible \u00a0damage had occurred. We’ve often heard of stories of two siblings or friends who fought each other, \u00a0and out of anger, \u00a0one out \u00a0of them murdered the other. Such kind of scenarios equally happens in relationship which is our main focus. \u00a0 \u00a0If one or both parties are hot tempered, \u00a0there is every tendency that one of them might react out of anger. \u00a0Thereby endangering the other.<\/p>\n

Anger is a\u00a0Red flag<\/a>\u00a0in any relationship. \u00a0It becomes worse if both parties has anger issues as two wrongs cannot make a right.<\/p>\n

We don’t have any right to \u00a0natural flaws like anger since some people were created that way. \u00a0but it is our choice to decide weather to live with it or make changes. \u00a0The decision lies in our hand. \u00a0And the earlier we learn how to control our emotions, \u00a0the better. \u00a0As it would save us a whole lot of stress and misfortunes.<\/p>\n

now the question is, \u00a0how can we curb Anger and Resentment in a relationship. <\/a><\/p>\n

\"Anger
Dealing with anger and resentment in a relationship<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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Dealing with Anger and resentment in a relationship.<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Understanding \u00a0your partner – <\/a><\/p>\n

Love alone does not keep a relationship. \u00a0No matter how deep your love \u00a0for each other is, \u00a0when there is no understanding, \u00a0this love would fade away in a twinkle of an eye. \u00a0You can attract each other with love. \u00a0But you can only keep each other with understanding.<\/p>\n

Relationship is all about tolerance, And what makes this tolerance possible is understanding. \u00a0We can’t change them, \u00a0neither can can we have them perfect. \u00a0But we can only influence them with understanding and tolerance.<\/p>\n

There is always a flaw in every individual. \u00a0In a scenario where he’s \/her’s is Anger, \u00a0you have to learn how to adapt with them. \u00a0 When you observe he often flares up at any slightest provocation, \u00a0gets infuriated by any little things or gets provoked easily.<\/p>\n

The best to do is to keep calm.understand that \u00a0This is his nature, \u00a0get used to the fact that you can’t change him by yelling back at him. \u00a0your attitude \u00a0of keeping calm and being silent when he is provoked might influence him to change for better.<\/p>\n

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Walk away when situation are becoming too intense.<\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with arguing with each other once in a blue moon. \u00a0It is part of the understandable aspect of a relationship.<\/p>\n

However, \u00a0when this argument has suddenly become so intense to the point of insulting and abusing each other, \u00a0then there is always need to pause and walk away.<\/p>\n

As any further action or delay might spur you to react negatively out of anger. \u00a0From abusing each other, \u00a0it can suddenly graduate to threatening each other with life threatening objects such as weapons. \u00a0This is exactly how so many marriages ended. \u00a0With the wife or hubby spending their life time in jail for allegedly murdering their spouse.<\/p>\n

Anger and resentment in a relationship is really a monster and can be curbed if one or both parties learns to ignore the other when provoked rather than react to proof their worth.<\/p>\n

\"Anger
Dealing with anger and resentment in a relationship<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Communication<\/a><\/p>\n

So many couples are so busy with their career that the only time they have for each other is during love making. They have no time to chat and discuss like partners. \u00a0They live as housemates rather than couples.<\/p>\n

They don’t have time to analyze each other’s character in other to find out where they needed an adjustment.<\/p>\n

The best way to deal with anger and resentment in a relationship is to have a heart to heart conversation about it. \u00a0The affected partner should pour out his\/her feeling toward his partner’s anger attitude. Both should discuss about each other’s flaws and find a way to curb it individually.<\/p>\n

patience.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As you have communicated with them about their anger flaws, \u00a0the next step is to be patient with them. \u00a0Quitting a flaw or addiction is not always easy, \u00a0is a gradual process. \u00a0Don’t expect them to change overnight. \u00a0just give them time to do that.<\/p>\n

Portray a good character<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is this popular adage Good character calms the heart. \u00a0Sometimes the best antidote toward your partner’s resentment \u00a0is by portraying a good character . What do you do when they are provoked? Nag or yell back? \u00a0you are only worsening the situation . \u00a0You can easily calm them down by finding a way to please them. \u00a0Either by preparing \u00a0their best dish or getting their \u00a0best gift.<\/p>\n

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