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Self dependent<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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Being Self <\/a>\u00a0dependent and happy is one of the attributes that defines a champion or one willing to live up to his\/her dreams.<\/p>\n

But yet comes with lots of challenges. \u00a0Just like the saying goes, \u00a0no man is an island, \u00a0it is natural to crave for companionship, \u00a0friendship and relationship. \u00a0We all want to experience that special feelings of having someone around who by all indication have our interest at heart.<\/p>\n

We all desire to have that caring friend \u00a0who comes to our aid in times of need, \u00a0we all desire to have that close relation who wouldn’t mind sacrificing their time and finances just to ensure we are happy and have our problem solved. \u00a0But what happens then if they eventually walks out from your life?<\/p>\n

What happens if they suddenly woke up one day, \u00a0and to your greatest amazement, \u00a0comes up with an excuse of why they could \u00a0no longer render help to you, \u00a0thereby leaving you with the feelings of disappointments and resentments.<\/p>\n

What happens if they suddenly grew cold toward you, \u00a0keeps their distance and tries to avoid you in other not to be bothered any longer?<\/p>\n

What will you do in such scenario? Hang yourself? Give up on your self?yell on top of your voice?quit your dreams? Or sob till you get weary? Well if any of these could prefer solution, \u00a0I think a lot of persons would have had their problems solved.<\/p>\n

The only constant thing in life is change. \u00a0We have to come to the realization that no one stays in our life permanently.humans are unreliable, \u00a0 Your friends and relatives are human capable of disappointing you. \u00a0They can fail you despite their promises, \u00a0they can leave you amides of confusion and brokenness, they can leave you pondering if they actually existed in your life?they can desert you at that very time you needed help the most.<\/p>\n

This is why every individual ought to be self reliable. \u00a0You have to practice how to be self dependent and happy. \u00a0Is not really easy especially when you’ve always depended on people for one thing or the other, but it is possible and quite achievable. \u00a0It only requires determination.<\/p>\n

You can actually be self Dependent<\/a>\u00a0and happy if you’ve made a strong decision to do so. \u00a0I am going to explain some steps you have to adopt in other to achieve that purpose.<\/p>\n

How to become self dependent and happy.<\/h2>\n
\"Self
Being self dependent and happy<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Discipline<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every activity we do in life requires the application of discipline in other to be successful.<\/p>\n

Discipline simply means subjecting ourselves and mind to self control, \u00a0forgoing or curbing some flaws or challenges which seems appealing, but stands a chance to become an obstacle to us in the future. do you know that being self dependent is an Addiction<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You can be so addicted to the point that you can’t really do anything on your own without having to rely on someone for assistance. \u00a0You can’t even try because you are \u00a0already used to requesting for assistance every now and then.<\/p>\n

Discipline your mind to do things on your own. \u00a0Assume you don’t have any assistance, \u00a0even though you have. \u00a0Be willing to subject your mind into taking action. \u00a0This will help you to be self dependent and happy.<\/p>\n

Curbing your\u00a0<\/strong>fears<\/strong><\/p>\n

Another significant way of becoming self dependent and happy is by learning how to curb your Fears<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Nothing makes an individual so dependent like fear. \u00a0Fear is one of the greatest weak point that can interfere with one’s dream and goals in life. \u00a0Fear can prevent one from making an attempt in life, \u00a0fear can hide one’s ability, potential and competency. Fear can enslave one.<\/p>\n

Most times, we are more competent than people we rely on, \u00a0but because we are so engulfed with fear, \u00a0we may not recognize this fact. \u00a0Get up and conquer your fear. It is not easy, \u00a0but quite possible and achievable. \u00a0Try doing things on your own, \u00a0even if it means failing, \u00a0even if it means having to repeat it several times.<\/p>\n

Practice they say makes perfect, \u00a0with time, \u00a0you will look back at those memories and be glad you did it yourself and never relied on anyone. \u00a0Your legacy will live on, \u00a0your children will always be proud of your achievement in the future.<\/p>\n

Always Think of disappointments.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just like Was earlier explained, \u00a0human are unpredictable and unreliable. \u00a0No one can be trusted at all times.not even your close relations.<\/p>\n

Your friends are liable to disappoint you any time despite their promises, \u00a0your relatives can fail you at the time you needed them most, \u00a0and so there is nothing you can do about that. \u00a0Always think of disappointment, even as you are optimistic that they will fulfill their promise, also think of the probability of the later. \u00a0This would focus your mind on reality so you don’t feel relaxed and at the end of the day, while being \u00a0caught \u00a0unawares.<\/p>\n

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