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Overcoming relationship challenges<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Relationship challenges,\u00a0 what are they and how can they be curbed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

relationship <\/a>\u00a0challenges are those common problems associated with most relationships,\u00a0 a times it ignites a great fear in people’s heart and scares them away from fallen in love to the one they have soft spot for.\u00a0 Just like every other issues in life,\u00a0 relationship has its own challenges.<\/p>\n

Ever heard of people say that they are scared of fallen in love?\u00a0 this could be as a result of their bad experiences in the past.\u00a0 having a\u00a0Healthy relationship <\/a>requires a great effort and work.\u00a0 This is because you are dealing with another individual with a different opinion and mindset as you,\u00a0 who also sees thing in a different perspective.\u00a0 So with that you are likely to have a period of misunderstanding,, arguments and breaking apart.<\/p>\n

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There a times where issues becomes so intense that you will see yourself struggling to keep the relationship going.<\/p>\n

And the worse scenario is when the effort is just from you alone.\u00a0 No wonder some people tag “relationship” as a full time work.\u00a0 While some people who are so focused with their work or career sees it as a source of distraction.<\/p>\n

Similarly, some\u00a0 \u00a0people who have experienced\u00a0 several heart break in the past might deserve to take a break in other to heal from their past relationship and most importantly prepare their minds for the next relationship.<\/p>\n

These all summarizes the fact that keeping a relationship is a great work hence the challenges that comes with it.<\/p>\n

Some common relationship challenges<\/h2>\n
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relationship challenges and how to solve it<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Infidelity<\/strong><\/p>\n

Infidelity is one of the greatest challenge in relationship. This problem is the most common reason why a lot of folks develops a cold feet at the mention of the word “relationship”.<\/p>\n

It is the common reason why most folks had vowed never to fall in love again.\u00a0 It is the reason why many still believes that Love is an illusion.\u00a0 You often hear hate\/bitter statements like All men or women are scum.\u00a0 The fear of infidelity can make one give up on relationship so quickly without realizing that they are few miles away in meeting their rightful partner.<\/p>\n

They might give up just the moment they are about to meet a truth and honest person.<\/p>\n

The Ex challenge<\/strong><\/p>\n

Being in a relationship with someone who still have some left over feelings for his\/her Ex can be so hurting.<\/p>\n

And one of the worst case is being led on only to discover\u00a0 that your were used for a\u00a0\u00a0Rebound<\/a>. It could be so daunting especially when you are committed with them.<\/p>\n

The past<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is said that sometimes, the past could have a correlation with the present.<\/p>\n

This is somehow true as there are people who still harbor the hurt, emotional trauma and heartbreaks they experienced in their previous relationship thereby hurting their present partner and making the relationship inconvenient for them.<\/p>\n

Such people are so engulfed With their past that nothing seems to excite them.\u00a0 Even when their partner tries to convince them that they are different.<\/p>\n

The signs of love and affection means nothing to them. Such people find it difficult to\u00a0trust their partners as a result of fear.<\/p>\n

EGO and insecure feelings-<\/a> this is another great relationship challenges that often\u00a0 scares people away from fallen in love or makes them insecure when they are\u00a0 in love.<\/p>\n

Imagine dating someone who feels is absurd apologizing to you when they have erred or annoyed you.\u00a0 It could be so daunting.<\/p>\n

Also imagine dating someone who doesn’t check up on you except you does.\u00a0 Such feelings can leave one with the feelings of insecurity.<\/p>\n

Everyone desires to have a friend as a partner and not a boss,\u00a0 a confidant and not a military personnel.<\/p>\n

How to overcome Relationship challenges<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Focus more\u00a0 on the personality and not the feeling\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Many a times,\u00a0 we pay more attention to our feelings than the real personality of the one we are about to date.\u00a0 And that’s where the problem usually begins.\u00a0 You might end up with someone whose character is contrary to your expectation.<\/p>\n

While fallen in love,\u00a0 we have to be realistic,\u00a0 even though the feelings might be intense.\u00a0 But we have to realize the fact that emotions and feelings might fade away so soon.\u00a0 But what actually keeps a relationship is the understanding and compatibility.<\/p>\n

Have an Effective communication<\/strong> –<\/p>\n

you don’t have to give up on love and relationship because of the challenges you assumed is associated with .<\/p>\n

Sometimes communication does and handles a lot.\u00a0 \u00a0Is absurd to assume that your partner often knows when they’ve hurt you.<\/p>\n

As we differ individually,, so as our emotions.\u00a0 Not every person is sensitive to pay attention to your emotions.\u00a0 Sometimes it isn’t a deliberate act just that they were not made that way.\u00a0 the best thing is to talk to them first before drawing your conclusions.<\/p>\n

Always Prepare your mind<\/strong><\/p>\n

Life itself comes with its own challenge,\u00a0 and the best way to overcome is to always get your mind ready.<\/p>\n

And how can you do that?\u00a0 stop being overly expectant, stop being too jealous and insecure,\u00a0 trust me these are the things that makes it more difficult.<\/p>\n

The more\u00a0 insecure you are,\u00a0 the more little things gets you paranoid. The more expectant you are,\u00a0 the greater the chances of increasing the likelihood of being hurt.\u00a0 Treat the relationship gradually and assure yourself that if it works out,\u00a0 fine!!\u00a0 And if it doesn’t still fine.\u00a0 don’t act like your whole life depends on it. In that way you can always move on when relationship challenges like break up strikes<\/p>\n

Define a relationship <\/a><\/p>\n

Defining a relationship does one vital thing, and that is to help you know the purpose of what you are really getting into and what to make out of it..<\/p>\n

Relationship challenges often get to us as a result of starting a relationship without any direction.\u00a0 You don’t know if you stand a chance with him\/her in the future or you both are just mere flings.\u00a0 Defining a relationship would help reduce the chances of being hurt.<\/p>\n

Knowing that no one is perfect.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

just because your ex jilted you does not mean every other person’s would do the same.\u00a0 however,\u00a0 you still have to know that no perfect individual exists.\u00a0 If you are looking for a perfect relationship, am very sorry to disappoint\u00a0 you, you\u00a0 may not find any. Every relationship at one point or the other undergoes challenges.\u00a0 \u00a0Is all about knowing what you want and going for it irrespective of some defects in it.<\/p>\n

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