Long courtship<\/a>, Long engagement is not a guarantee\u00a0 that a marriage would definitely become a reality.\u00a0 Hence the reason why engagement shouldn’t be too long.<\/p>\n<\/h2>\n
A typical and true engagement ought not to exceed a year at most.\u00a0 I would have said six months,\u00a0 but considering the fact that marriage requires a lot of preparation.<\/p>\n
One might need to get him\/her self prepared in all aspects,\u00a0 especially as it regards to finance.<\/p>\n
However,\u00a0 I really see no point engaging a woman when you know you ain’t financially\u00a0 ready to marry her any time soon.<\/p>\n
Engagement literally means “I am ready to get married anytime soon.\u00a0 It sounds awkward for two individuals who probably had no source of living yet to engage each other.\u00a0 Engagement is quite different from dating,\u00a0 and so has to be done at the right timing to avoid unnecessary long engagement.<\/p>\n
Reasons why people\u00a0 ought to stay away from long engagement .<\/h2>\n
Long engagement\u00a0 Gives the wrong impression to your partner<\/strong><\/p>\nAs a man engaging a woman for so long without any plans to get married might give her the wrong impression about you, when the delay is becoming so intense,\u00a0 she might assume you are toiling with her emotions or probably came to deceive, even though your intention might be genuine.<\/p>\n
Hence she might begin to\u00a0 loose interest soon. Rather than engage her when you know you ain’t ready.\u00a0 Open up to her, ask\u00a0 her to exercise patience with you for some time.<\/p>\n
With that,\u00a0 you’ve given her an assurance,\u00a0 she is no longer left in\u00a0 a confused state of mind.\u00a0 \u00a0Is then up to her to make the decision either\u00a0 to wait or opt out.\u00a0 \u00a0But one thing is certain, despite her decision,\u00a0 \u00a0she will really appreciate you\u00a0 for being honest and transparent to her.<\/p>\n
With long long courtship, Disappointment is inevitable<\/strong><\/p>\nWomen are always at the receiving end ,\u00a0 when it comes to an\u00a0 engagement which eventually didn’t turn out well.<\/p>\n
They become victims of hurt,\u00a0 emotional trauma\u00a0 which might\u00a0 affects them psychologically.<\/p>\n
That’s why you\u00a0 see\u00a0 some women finding it difficult to accept a serious date\/suitor\u00a0 probably because of the\u00a0 \u00a0disappointment they had in the past.is necessary you take precaution when an engagement is becoming longer than necessary.<\/p>\n
No one says you should begin to cheat on your partner or leave your relationship because of your assumptions or fear of the unknown.\u00a0 But don’t get relaxed, because they proposed.<\/p>\n
Remember engagement is not marriage yet. Officially you are still single till he walks you to the alter.\u00a0 So in that case,\u00a0 your options still ought to be open while praying and hoping it works out.<\/p>\n
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