The True definition of oneness in marriage

For Married/singles. Though not married, I’ve discovered that the only (1+1=1 ).language married couples especially men understands most is sex. And a man shall live his parents and cleave unto his wife and they shall become one. There wasn’t any specification or condition attached to the oness. Aside being legally married. So why do most men understands oneness only when the issue of sex pops up? What happens to oneness in understanding, tolerance and respect. Some men would treat their wives as crap, and disrespect them in public. When she denies him sex. Hell will let loose. And all of a sudden, he would remember they are one. And start calling up family meetings to know why his wife must deny him sex…… Is that so???? This category of men are the ones who would forcefully have sex with their wife without her consent. Then goes ahead to justify themselves as not being a rapist with the guise that her body belongs to him. What happens to respect? You care about the body alone, what about the heart that gives the body life and energy to perform? Dont you that whatever happens to the heart, would equally affect the body. If you let the heart pass through hurt, the body gets affected too.

Respect, love and understanding.

Respect, love and understanding is the primary definition of oneness in marriage. Oneness implies that you both are one regardless of the age qualification or gender. If you are always acting bossy on your wife, disregards her opinion and ignores her ideas. You are not one but two different individuals living together under one roof. When last did you get close to your wife? Chatted, discussed and played with her like your playmate, aside when you want sex. When last did you compliment your wife? apart from compliments on bed. Oneness should include every aspects of your marriage. Oneness includes living as best friends and not flat mates.