There are women you shouldn’t date or get married to if you’re considering achieving success in life and having a long life span. I know a lot of men would argue with this? A lot will find this sarcastic. How can you link your success to a woman when you can actually work hard, and attain any goal you wish to?
However, there’s more to success than just the amount of currency one have in his bank account. Whoever you decides to spend the rest of your life with will determine the tendency of your life soaring higher or declining. And that is why it is crucial to make the right choice of a woman.
What do men want in life? What are the basic factors that determines a man’s success in life? Peace, financial stability and Respect.
This is to say that a man cannot function well if these three factors are lacking in his life. His choice of woman largely depends on these three factors that is, if he has the intention of getting married.
Having known these, it is necessary that every man should have an in-depth knowledge and understanding about the kind of woman she intends to settled down with to avoid going back to square one in life.
12 kinds of women you shouldn’t date.
1. Materialistic women .
One of the women you shouldn’t date if you intend to maintain your success in life are materialistic women.
As mentioned earlier, financial stability is one of the top factors that determines a man’s success rate. It is often said that behind every successful man, there’s a woman.
A lot of people are yet to grasp the true meaning of the slogan . It doesn’t necessarily mean that a woman is solely behind the success of a man, however, it does mean that a man can only secure his resources when there’s no wasteful woman to drain his effort. A woman who only craves for luxury, but not interested on how you invest your money into productive things is wasteful.
A woman who only thinks about how to look good without considering the basic necessities in the home is materialistic. Women are meant to be helper and not liabilities. Don’t ignore such Red flags during dating or courtship.
2. Nagging women.
A Nagging woman is a threat to peace. Imagine coming back from a hectic day, expecting a warm reception from your wife, but on the contrary, you were welcomed with yelling over an issue which could have been settled by mutual communication. This is why most married men would rather spend their time hanging out with their fellow guys after work.
However, avoiding a nagging woman doesn’t necessarily mean you shouldn’t pay attention to her complaint to know where you should do necessary adjustment. Giving a woman audience is still necessary, and that is if she requests to have a mutual communication with you, not by yelling and attracting the attention of others via her loud voice.
Nagging disrupts peace, you can only know when there’s peace in union if there’s cravings to return home as soon as you’re done with work.
3. INSECURE WOMEN .
One of the women you shouldn’t date are insecure women.
They can make you loose focus, friends and trust. Jealousy is part of love, being a bit insecure shows that you really love and value your partner and wouldn’t like to loose them.
We all love to protect things we value at all cost. However, there should be a limit and balance to that. Dating an insecure woman can lead to loss of freedom, imagine being questioned about your movement, anytime you hang out with your fellow guys, imagine not having a good relationship with your friends at work whom you solely discuss business ideas with all because your woman suspects you’re having an affair with them. Such can be heart wrenching .
4. OBSESSIVE WOMEN.
One of the women you shouldn’t date are obsessive women. obsession may seem like love, but most times, it is an extreme form of insecurity.
Obsessed people can go to any length to proof their love including harming you or harming themselves.
Their usual lines are “if I can’t have you no one else can. They are triggered easily by their emotions and equally act based on their emotions, which often times leads to making a regrettable mistakes.
5. Women who keep multiple male friends.
Everyone can make friendship with the opposite sex, irrespective of their relationship status. However, there are exceptions to this as regards to boundaries and how this friendship operates.
When a woman is always seen around with multiple men, weather in the form of best friends or colleagues that could be tagged as a red flag.
When a woman truly loves you, she will be emotionally drawn to you alone and intentionally scare other men away. Unlike men, women are not polygamous in nature, except she doesn’t want anything serious with you, and just want to string you along. This is why you must avoid dating women who keeps multiple male friends, because most times, they keep them for their selfish interest.
6. Desperate women.
How can you identify a desperate woman? Her quest to get things done at all cost without weighing the consequences or challenges that lies within.
A desperate woman can lure you into marriage with fake attitude and good character in disguise. Only to be met with disappointment as soon as you discover that she’s nothing close to the character she portrayed earlier while you were still dating. It can lead to life time regrets in the life of a man.
7. Women who still get along with their Ex.
One of the women you shouldn’t date are women who are still in good terms with their Ex. It doesn’t mean one should be enemies with their Ex”s. But watch out for constant communications from their Ex. It is a sign that something is still going between them.
Sometimes, when a relationship ends for some reasons. Two people involved can be apart, while their feelings may still be intact especially if the relationship ended due to reasons beyond their control.
In such scenario, it might be difficult for a woman to fight the feelings if there’s a re established communication, thereby making her to succumb. This is because women are known as emotional beings and weaker vessels. It only takes discipline for them to resist. And not every women are in possession of this discipline.
8. AGGRESSIVE and HOT TEMPERED WOMEN.
In the list of factors needed for a man to attain success. Peace of mind also tops the list. Every man needs peace to function and this peace can’t be accessible, if you’re dealing with a woman with anger issues. We all have our flaws as individuals, however some flaws can never be managed no matter how one try to condone it. Temperament is a very common flaw, but there extreme cases especially one involved with destroying things at the peak of anger. Some ladies possess such attitude which is not healthy for you as a man.
9. Clingy and Needy women.
A clingy woman can pose distraction especially at the peak of your hustles. Imagine dating a woman who wants your attention 24/7. Imagine dating a woman who calls you every hour to know who you’re with and what you’re doing. Imagine having a woman who flares up and because you didn’t respond to her text immediately. Imagine dating a woman who pictures a cheating scenario in her mind just because you missed a call. Isn’t that synonymous to bondage?
In as much as effective communication necessary in a healthy relationship, having one’s space is equally paramount. Sometimes, you may need your space as a man to reevaluate your life, and make adequate planning, but having a woman who needs your attention all the will derail such plan.
10. Drama queen.
One of the women you shouldn’t date for your peace of mind are the drama queen. How can you identify them? They are often indecisive, can’t make a decision and stick to it. Today, they complain of not getting adequate attention from you, you try to give them attention, they start ignoring you and acting distant. They want you and at the same time, put up attitude that gets you paranoid. Avoid such women at all cost.
11. Inconsistent women..
They are the worst of all. Knowing that someone does not want you because they’ve made it clear to you through their actions or spoken words is preferable than having someone leading you on every now and then and withdrawing back their feelings as soon as you’ve started developing feelings for them.
Women who behave in such way are not ready for commitment, probably because they have so many options which they intentionally kept for their selfish purposes.
They are time wasters. As a responsible man who craves for a successful life and lovely family, you’ve to make your choice among women who knows what they want and are ready to stick to it.
12. promiscuous women.
One of the women you shouldn’t date are the promiscuous women. They may appear flashy and enticing to be with, however, you have think beyond your feelings and emotions.
Promiscuous women have a great tendency for cheating in marriage, don’t date them with the expectation that they will change later. People rarely change especially when their character has become a habit developed over a long period of dating.
Aside infidelity, promiscuous women can influence your kids with negative lifestyle. People only flaunt and give out what they are in possession of. A woman can’t give morals and discipline to her kids if she isn’t in possession of one.
13. The opportunist.
One of the women you shouldn’t date are the opportunist. When you woo a lady and she declined at first, but later discovers how resourceful you are and decides to accept your proposal, she’s an opportunist. When a lady who often ignores you only gives you an attention when she needs your assistance, and then goes back to her usual behavior after her needs have been met, she’s a big time opportunist. If you’re considering anything serious from a woman, you need to avoid such categories of women to avoid
