What do men want?

How do I please him? How do I get him feel the same way like I do or reciprocate my love? If you are pondering on this question, then I must confess, you ain’t alone on this.

A lot of female folks out there feels the same way. And had been constantly asking the same rhetorically questions. All men are the same,, a friend of mine recently lamented after being jilted by her lover of 2years. My past relationships also ended in a similar way she complained bitterly . You love them, you are clingy, you doesn’t, you ain’t caring, “she continues amidst of tears. A lot women had gone through similar experience and probably wondering what it really takes to get a man reciprocate their love.

First, I have to correct that impression that “all men are the same”. Even an identical twins that shares the same umbilical cord still have different individual trait, let alone individuals that ain’t blood related. Most a times, men are not really the issue, but understanding the nature of a man, and how it tends to differ from that of female folks.

Here are four basic things a man want from you

 

Men love adventures

What do men want?  while women are derived and controlled by their emotions. Men are derived by their ability and what they can achieve. Men are goal getter, their strength lies on their abilities and achievements. They don’t want to be seen as a failure, so they would everything possible to avoid that status quo.

Have you ever observed that when a man is having hard Would become emotionally detached from his his relationship. He needs space- the way most women reacts to situations often differs from the male folks.

For e. g when a woman is passing through pressures or hard times, she may need a should to lean on and someone to confide in probably her partner, relations or trusted friends.

On the contrary, a man wants to handle his alone as a way to prove his masculinity. And boost his Ego, Thus he may want his space.it doesn’t imply he has lost interest in the relationship. And the worst thing to do at this period is to pressurize him.it will only drive him farther away. Is not about you, he needs time to concentrate and think. And trust me if he truly loves you, the relationship will be back to normalcy when everything becomes OK. He needs support- nothing excites a man than having that assurance that he is dating a supportive woman.

A woman who doesn’t nag him every now and then but a woman who would help him actualize his dream . A woman who isn’t self centered but who puts his partner’s happiness into consideration before taken any decision. .

He needs respect

No matter how good or down to earth a man is, he needs a submissive and respectful woman. Men are egocentric in nature hence wants to feel that relevance and importance from their women. They hate nagging.

Men detest nagging so much. They hate being nagged several times over a particular issue even though they might be guilty of that. You Would become emotionally detached from his his relationship.

He needs space

What do men want? 

The way most women reacts to situations often differs from the male folks. This shows the Emotional differences In men and women. For e. g when a woman is passing through pressures or hard times, she may need a should to lean on and someone to confide in probably her partner, relations or trusted friends.

On the contrary, a man wants to handle his alone as a way to prove his masculinity. And boost his Ego, Thus he may want his space.it doesn’t imply he has lost interest in the relationship. And the worst thing to do at this period is to pressurize him.it will only drive him farther away. Is not about you, he needs time to concentrate and think. And trust me if he truly loves you, the relationship will be back to normalcy when everything becomes OK. Respect his decision  when he says he needs space. The way you handle his request for space will determine how soon he will be out of his cave. 

 

He needs your support

What do men want? Nothing excites a man than having that assurance that he is dating a supportive woman.

A woman who doesn’t nag him every now and then but a woman who would help him actualize his dream .

A woman who isn’t self centered but who puts his partner’s happiness into consideration before taken any decision.

Men want support

What do men want? No matter how good or down to earth a man is, he needs a submissive and respectful woman. Men are egocentric in nature hence wants to feel that relevance and importance from their women.

They hate nagging. Men detest nagging so much. They hate being nagged several times over a particular issue even though they might be guilty of that. You You have to be diplomatic when laying a complaint to him. It might be an annoying attitude from him that you wants him to quit or something that he needs to improve on.

The way you approach the issue would determine if he would give you an audience ignore you, or tag you a “nag”. Be polite about it. Address the issue in a polite but matured way. Don’t talk about it consistently. Give him time to reminiscence over it as most times habits are difficult to quit.

He wants your appreciation. 

What do men want? They want your appreciation, this is one of the essential love language about men most women are unaware of.  Men are egoistic in nature, and the only way to boost their EGO and self confidence is to appreciate their effort. 

 Men are afraid of being judged by their weak points or flaws, and that is why they would rather sulk in pains, and handle their challenges alone than to express their feelings. Their masculinity lies in the ability to show off their strength. 

They value any woman who tends to bring out this confidence in them. 

The easiest way to bruise a man’s EGO is to rate him by his flaws.

Appreciate your man’s effort no matter how small. Make him feel good about himself,  even when he is not getting it alright.

Remind him that he’s a human bound to make mistakes a times. Trust me, every responsible man never jokes with a lady who brings out the uniqueness and strength in them. 

 

He wants intimacy. 

What do men want? Every man craves for intimacy. Men are naturally known to be sexually aroused especially  when they get an erection. It is part of the biological make up.

However, while Every man wants intimacy, not every man sees it as a priority especially at the beginning of a relationship.

For players who just want  fling , it is either s.x or nothing. The ones who wants a true requirement will never be in a rush, they will respect your decision to wait. This is  Why some  men withdraw after the chase. 

They were never interested in being committed or taking further steps in formalizing the relationship. 

 

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