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How to identify a healthy relationship

Couples in a healthy relationship

Having a healthy relationship is the dream of every young person who desires to build a life time union with the intent of marriage. Introducing someone as your boyfriend/girlfriend is not just enough. They are “mere”tithle”.what really matters is the state of your relationship and how excited you are to have them as your partner. And that brings us to the topic “identifying a healthy relationship “.from the word “healthy”.a healthy relationship is said to be a relationship in a good state. One devoid of Unresolvable issues.

Here are some ways to identify a healthy relationship .

Mutual communication

Communication plays a major role in a relationship. It increases the bond and intimacy in the relationship. When you find yourself struggling to keep the communication going, whereas your partner does nothing to reciprocate

Then the relationship is no longer healthy for you and there may be a need to discontinue.


Imagine you have something confidential you would like to share with someone. Am very sure you wouldn’t like to share it with just anyone. But someone you trust and believe in so much. Now imagine, being secretive to your partner, it implies you don’t trust them. It gives them the impression you don’t believe in them. It also depicit that there is a skeleton on your Cupboard. A healthy relationship ought to be transparent. If you can’t confide in each other, then it means your relationship is filled with

Doubts. If you can comfortably hide things from each other, then it implies you are not both compatible being in a relationship. If you comfortably pick up their calls at their absence, then it shows there may be something fishy. Being open to each increases the friendship


A healthy relationship is a relationship where both partners see each other more like a best friend. There is respect on both sides irrespective of the age differences. You can talk to each other freely and request for an assistance from each other in a polite way without being bossy or making the other feel humiliated. You also respect each other’s boundaries. For instance, if she says she doesn’t want to be sexually involved with you yet, you ought to respect that. If he says you shouldnt pick up his calls. Also respect that regardless of the reasons behind such decision.

Less pressure

Couples often complain about having a manipulative partner who often compells them to do things without considering their happiness first. A healthy relationship does not have to be manipulative. For e.g threatening you with break up every now and then if you ain’t ready to succumb to their wish. If a relationship restricts your freedom to concentrate in other vital aspects of your personal life such as your career, skills or hobby. Then is no longer healthy for you.


For a relationship to be healthy, couples ought to be compatible with each other. It doesn’t Mean they should be perfect. But there should be Some level of understanding between both, ability to condone each other’s flaw. And tolerate each other’s attitude from time to time.

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